Boyfriend missed anniversary?

My boyfriend and I were having our 4yr anniversary and he got me nothing - no gift, no flowers, no card. We have 2 kids that I take care of 20/24hrs a day, I work, go to school full time, take care of the house, etc. All he does is go to work - he had all the time in the world to do something but he didn%26#039;t. He asked all week and even the day before what I was giving him ( a $350 ice fishing suit he%26#039;s been dying for). He knows I%26#039;ve been crying my eyes out. He has not said sorry and if it%26#039;s been like our previous anniversaries, my birthdays, valentines days... he will not make up for it. He cares enough to make sure he sent floweres to his mom for her birthday 2 weeks ago - but he choose not to make time to do anything for me. He is trying to talk to nicely to me but I want nothing to do with someone who doesn%26#039;t care about me and won%26#039;t even say sorry for hurtn me. He does this all the time. We have kids and I don%26#039;t want to leave him. Talking to him is no use. What should I do

Boyfriend missed anniversary?
Go get counselling. Also, DO leave him!! The reason he does this to you is because he CAN GET AWAY WITH IT and he KNOWS you won%26#039;t leave!!





DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Just say that you are leaving to find someone who actualy gives a fxck about your feelings and puts you first in their life WHERE YOU SHOULD BE!





Don%26#039;t worry about your kids, studies have found that having separated parents has no effecton them, they won%26#039;t care believe me, and if they do, tough. Why should they have to live in a family where their father does not even care about their mother??





It will be better for the kids if you leave.
Reply:sounds like my man guess some guys are ******* and dont think much of what matters the most there women!! but there is no changing someone that is set on his ways already thats about all i can tell you.
Reply:You should leave him anyways. He sounds like a moron.
Reply:Maybe hes gonna surprise you. we%26#039;ll you need some time 2 yourself to ask yourself some deep questions, like %26quot; do i like where the relationship is now? do i like where its going? whats the history with this guy? good / bad? can it be worked out? do i love him?%26quot; you know, like that....get your %26quot;priorities%26quot; straight.
Reply:It makes a little more sense this time around. So, he%26#039;s all talk and no action. I mean, I can%26#039;t blame you for not trusting his words since he doesn%26#039;t actually have any actions to show you he cares.





It seems like he takes advantage of you. Maybe you guys should see a counselor who can help you with your relationship and help him understand what he%26#039;s putting you through.



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