How can i let my husband exert some efforts on our wedding anniversary? its been nine years and still , huhuhu

he is a seaman and i really am disappointed when our wedding anniversary comes and he doesnt even buy me flowers or chocolates, such girlie stuffs, im sure most married women will agree,even if hes here for his vacation, he is not that thoughtful anymore to me, hu.huu

How can i let my husband exert some efforts on our wedding anniversary? its been nine years and still , huhuhu
OMG Mae, I%26#039;m so sorry to hear that. But gurlfriend I gotta tell ya. If the lazy bugger hasn%26#039;t done it in the last nine years it%26#039;s just not gonna happen. Sorry but that the truth. You can try making up a list and try and make him do it. Best of luck sweetie. Hugs : )
Reply:You really need to sit down and talk with HIM, not a bunch of total strangers who don%26#039;t have any connection to your marriage.





If he loves you, he will care about your feelings. Just make sure the television is off first, or ask him when a good time would be for the two of you to sit down and discuss some things.





Nine years is a long time to still be wondering how to handle things between you and the man you love.





Good luck!
Reply:Wonder what you do to plan something for HIM and buy for HIM -- if you aren%26#039;t happy, tell him. Make plans together ahead of time.
Reply:For your next anniversary, tell him about a week before the day: %26quot;Now this is our 10th wedding anniversary coming up next week, and on that day I know you will make up for the other nine anniversaries that you have ignored so far, right?????%26quot;
Reply:Tell him for the 10th wedding anniversary he can show you how much he wants you in his life and how he is not taking you for granted. Tell him he can go ahead and get started on those plans now.
Reply:Tell him no gift no nookie
Reply:hi don%26#039;t expect, request, and if he still doesn%26#039;t respond tell him how important abit of romance is to you, some guys just don%26#039;t get it, they complain about not getting enough, but there isn%26#039;t many women who can resist their partner after some thoughtful romantic gesture, especially on an anniversary.
Reply:try telling him that you need things like that, even if it seems stupid to him, it%26#039;s important to you.
Reply:Motivate and ask him as love request that will make you happy in the rest of your married life.
Reply:im sorry what u r going through.i tried to give my wife even a dozen roses and a card,and she didnt say anything about that.tell him you need something,even a card and a rose,or something that shows hes still interested



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